lol pilates

I haven’t seen Love is Blind for years, but the Great Pilates Controversy has been everywhere. Most recently, I opened a new tab in Firefox and one of the suggested links was this one: Why the manosphere reveres the ‘Pilates girl’. It’s published in The 19th, so we can treat it like the representative mainstream…

from utopianism to choosing the bear

I’m an elder millennial, class of 2001, the last to graduate before 9/11. Things used to be very different. It was a whole different zeitgeist. If you were in grade school when it happened, as an adult you wouldn’t understand what you missed unless you made a special effort to understand the Before Times. It’s…

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